Men thrive when denied orgasms.

This isn't only a kinky thing, I mean that on a spiritual level.

Sexual energy is one of a man's most powerful resources-when wasted mindlessly, it drains his vitality; when cultivated, it fuels his highest potential.

In tantra, this energy is revered, not suppressed but refined, transformed into strength, clarity, and purpose.

Frequent release weakens the life force (ojas), leaving men restless, unmotivated, and prone to distraction.

It is why men who indulge in obsessive masturbation and pornography will most often be lazy, unmotivated, mediocre and prone to other addictions like gambling, alcohol, drug use, finding it difficult to navigate their own ego, and so therefore existing in a lower plane of life.

But when he learns to harness his desire, he ascends-no longer a prisoner to impulse but a master of his own energy. This is brahmacharya: not denial, but sacred discipline.

I have seen submissives at their lowest, lost in stagnation, at a time in their life when something was broken or missing. Either their relationships were lacking, or personal development or their careers. When they surrendered their urges to a higher purpose, they awakened-more focused, more magnetic, more attuned.

Orgasm denial isn’t the abolishment of orgasms, but rather the proper channel of such sacred energy.

True devotion is not about loss but transformation, a path to becoming the man he was always meant to be.